Hey Dolls!
hope your doing FABULOUS and enjoying yourselves with my treat of blog posts!
I thought I had to tell you guys about my experience with giving friends advice. Have you ever thought that telling a friend something they ought to know will make you a better friend? If YES, then you can resonate my emotions. There are many times in life when circumstances place you in awkward situations. For example, you know your friend's boyfriend is cheating them, that DOUCHE BAG, and you think that telling that friend will be the right thing to do...well DON"T!!! Its a horrible idea, because all you end up doing is looking like a tattle-tale, while your friend still dates the douche bag, and now you have not only lost your friend but also your credibility as a good spy!
A similar situation happened to me a couple of months ago. One of my then dear friends was going through a deep depression and we as a friends circle were there to help her! Well I guess some of us were not as caring as the rest! One not so fabulous person, lets name her PINK ELEPHANT (i am to credit for this but everyone also calls her this, and if you claim you don't, your clearly LYING!!!)...pink elephant seemed to consoling depressed chick but actually was pretending by actually crying big fat elephant tears while in the presence of depressed chick, but then came back to everyone in the friends circle and bithched depressed chick out!!! AWFUL
Well I went and told depressed girl about the happening, she confronted pink elephant and pink elephant cried some more elephant tears and refuted the whole situation....BITCH....the result of this whole fiasco was that i was isolated from the friends circle, now labeled a LIAR (GAWD!!!) and elephant and depressed have spaghetti parties together (not like either needs it!!!)....
Thankfully these people did not affect my FABULOUS social and PR reputation, and they have thankfully disappeared into the balck holes they came from...GOOD RIDDANCE...
My point here is that as much as you think your being helpful but giving your friend advice, your in turn only hurting yourself! Though we all wanna be good people, we must realize the consequences of our actions!
Thats all for today's lesson dolls! Write back and tell me what your experiences are...
Until next time...
XOXO
I remember this... this group was a bunch of idiots. You are fabulous!!
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